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My friend James Banfield wrote this wonderful piece of spiritual wisdom called “THE HEART KEY.”

It is so good, I want as many people as possible to read it and understand God’s plan for married men and women.

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THE HEART KEY

by James Banfield

Women are connected directly to God’s Heart, and because of this, you can tell the worth of a man by looking at his wife’s countenance or face. If you want to see if the man is obeying GOD, it will be reflected in the wife’s face!

Women reflect the man’s relationship with the Lord, They are mirrors of whether the man is in obedience to GOD or not. God has created it this way, because he connected the woman straight to HIS heart!

The more the man learns to open his heart more fully to GOD, the more the wife will open her heart
more Fully to her HUSBAND. This teaching is called The HEART KEY!
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“A Woman”

This is written in the Hebrew Talmud, the book where all the saying and preachings of Rabbis are conserved over time. It says: “Be very careful if you make a woman cry, because God counts her tears. The woman came out of a man’s rib. not from his feet to be walked on, not from his head to be superior, but from the side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved.” Pass this on to all women that you know… and to all men so that they will understand that their wives are MIRRORS of their relationship with God!

“The Heart Key”

Proverbs 31:1-12 “who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She wiLl do him good and not evil all the days of her life. ”

The wife is a reflection of the husband. What the husband is, so too is the wife, for the wife inherits the traits of the husband. To confirm this, READ CHAPTERS 2-3 OF REVELATION and you will see the Lord gives his own personality, his traits, his authority to the Bride, these are the rewards that he gives.

Do you want more proof? Look in Genesis. How did the Lord make Eve? Did he not put Adam to sleep and took his rib and made Eve from Adam’s Rib? Therefore she is a part of Adam, the wife is a part of the husband. She is a direct reflection of the husband. Now, If God is so good that He can create man and woman, and make them work together in such an awesome way, do you not think that the Creator, The Lord himself, would have forgotten to include some form of communication between himself and his creation? I think not.

Love is the key, Love is the answer, Love is everything, Love is God. Love is the Woman. uh oh! What did I just say? Love is the Woman?

One night, about 6 years ago the Lord decided to tell this bachelor about “The Heart Key”. He showed me that “The Heart Key” was controlled by HIM ,and He did it in direct relation to the closeness or the distance between Him and the husband.

Let me show you..

There are times when the wife would be non-responsive and you, being the husband, would wonder “whats a matter with her?” and yet at other times, she would be totally repsonsive. So what would make her go from one end of the spectrum to another in the emotional range? It is the relationship between you, the husband, and the Lord and the path you are on. If you are not walking in the ways of the Lord and are doing what you should not be doing, God will try to communicate with you (let you know), & if you dont respond, or get the message, he uses “The Heart Key” to get through to you!

There are other times when you are into the scriptures, doing what the Lord has guided you to do, and the wife can’t seem to do enough for her husband! She can’t do enough for him you know? On the other hand, from past experience when I was married before, she would be so cold, and distant, and why was that? It is “The Heart Key” and God, the Lord has full control over it.

Now, here is an experiment for you husbands to try. Just pray and seek the Lord, What should I do for her to let her know that I love her and appreciate her? And then listen .. and do what he puts on your heart to do.

Now, wives .. the same to you, just pray to the Lord for what you feel your husband needs and then give it to the Lord. Watch what the Lord will do, “for the prayers of the righteous woman availeth much.”

THE CLOSER THE HUSBAND COMES TO THE LORD, THE MORE THE LORD TURNS THE HEART KEY IN THE WOMAN …

Talk about The wife needing to submit to the husband? I tell you this, If both are equally yoked, then the wife will never be forced to submit to her husband, for when the husband has submitted to the LORDand is led of the Spirit of the Lord, the wife gladly submits to her husband naturally. She desires it. She was made that way. And “The Heart Key” is turned full blast and she knows it, and loves it, and then can’t do enough of her husband.. He can do no wrong.

But, If he begins to slip a little , and for instance, starts to get those wandering eyes, she sees it. She might not say anything , but the Lord will. He’ll turn that Heart Key back just a little. You get home, and she puts away her coat, and goes into the kitchen and fixes dinner, but doesnt say a word to you. You don’t see it yet, but she is a bit put out. Not good. And when you come to dinner at the table, she’s amicable, but a little distant. So you wonder .. ok, what’s going on?

If you are lucky, she’ll tell you. But if you’re not, you’ll have to seek the Lord on the matter for him to show you, and HE will. When you go to your wife and apologize for looking at that lady back then, she will forgive you, and “The Heart Key” will get turned back the other way.

Now, If the husband keeps going in the wrong direction, that “Heart Key” will continue to be turned back until she becomes really cold, unloving, even to the point of challenging you, and rebellious…. well anyways, she’ll try to get you to understand … She can’t help it. For it is the Lord that is trying to wake you (the husband) up , from the present course that you are on. Do I speak the truth? YOU BET I DO.

THE CLOSER THE HUSBAND COMES TO THE LORD, THE MORE THE LORD TURNS THE HEART KEY IN THE WOMAN…

THE FARTHER THE HUSBAND SLIPS AWAY FROM THE LORD, THE MORE THE LORD TURNS THE HEART KEY BACK IN THE WOMAN …

Why is that? The Lord is showing the man, that he is off course and to get back on course. If the man is in rebellion? The Lord will reflect that in the wife. But, if the man is in harmony with the Lord and His ways, He will also reflect that in the woman..

THE WOMAN IS A DIRECT REFLECTION OF HER HUSBAND

And so it is, “The Heart Key”. If the Lord cannot get through to the husband in HIS normal communications, then HE will use “The Heart Key” to wake up the husband and let him know. “Knock Knock .. Hey .. Have I got your attention yet?” says the Lord.

“The Heart Key” really works. .

In HIM
James Banfield

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